The main stress didn't stop when we got the house. Tubby's parents started a torment of hell the last couple of weeks. They would call him every couple of days, nagged to him hours on the phone, all the time refusing to let us move in together. I even wrote a long letter to them, telling them about our story and how much we mean to each other. I won't deny we almost got to the point of breakdown and it affected us quite a bit. But I'm glad Tubby stayed firm and stood his ground and they finally said they won't discuss about the issue anymore. For how long that's gonna stay, I don't know. But for now, we will just be focusing and getting excited about our move the next few weeks. Rental in melbourne is super expensive, we are paying like 2.5 times the rent we are paying per month, as compared to Dalpura CT. Of course it's unfair to compare between city and country rental, but still, it's a huge difference. And the house is totally unfurnished, which means we have to spend more money on appliances and furniture. We also have to start paying for electricity, gas and water bills since they are not included in the rent too.
Anyway, straying from those moving and emotional stuff for a bit, here's some photos from the Easter trip to Tarra Valley:
Then on the night we went back to Churchill, we also had dinner with the people from Dalpura CT. And I just wanna say thank you again to you all for the sports bag, I love it. And it works best for my tennis nights. Also I have started playing netball with Eileen, Ying and the other uni students. It's so fun being able to go back to it again, I played it ages ago in high school. We haven't won yet on the last 4 weeks or so, but we're just out to sweat and have fun. :) We also had dinner and played Kup at Helen's and Michaels' place again. It's probably one of the last gatherings where everyone can turn up. Some of the photos have been added on facebook by Ying, so check it out there if you want.
And for those of your darlings or "kpos":p out there, we will be moving into the new place this friday and slowly bringing more stuff in every weekend. I won't be moving in permanently just yet cause I want to get a job down there first. And this time, I really do want to get a job that I really love doing; like graphic or web design. Plus it's not a rush for me to move down yet cause I still have tennis and netball comps going on here. And so I have lazily started sending out job applications last week, and I got called for an interview this friday, which was surprisingly fast, considering they take ages sometimes over here to process the applications. But anyway there's no promise to anything yet, so I'm just going to leave it in God's hands, like I always do. Till then, take care everyone and I hope the next update will come again soon.
2 comments:
hey chaboh...im so glad you guys are moving to the city...FINALLY! that was our dream like 2 years ago..lol. its hard i know but you two did the right thing by hanging on..there will always be hurdles to cross, but hold on tight to each other. simply because its not easy to find love, especially the love you guys have for each other. everything will be alright...*hugs*
-len-
Hey chaboh, thanks for the support and sweet words that you all always have for us during our times of hardship. Yeah everything is slowly working out and its great! Can't wait for you to come visit again. Muaks.
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